Lakeland Woman Finds Clarity for Funeral Wishes with Advance Planner

Lakeland, FL – A local woman from Lakeland's vibrant neighborhoods, who once envisioned a unique Obi-Wan Kenobi hologram for her funeral, has found a clear path to recording her end-of-life wishes thanks to an advance funeral planner. Her journey highlights the specialized support available for residents looking to ensure their final arrangements reflect their personal desires.

Initially, the woman considered consulting her attorney or financial planner about her funeral wishes. However, drawing from past experiences where her parents' funeral concluded before financial and estate matters were fully addressed, she sought a more focused approach. She noted that much of the attention during that time was on the final disposition – burial or cremation – rather than the broader scope of funeral planning.

Her search led her to her family funeral home, a pillar in the Lakeland community, where she met with Sue, an advance funeral planner. Sue's role is solely dedicated to assisting individuals in getting their funeral plans in place, offering a specialized service that proved invaluable.

During their discussions, the woman shared her initial idea of incorporating a Star Wars theme, particularly an Obi-Wan Kenobi hologram, to pass on wisdom to her four sons. Sue helped her consider how her husband might prefer a more traditional funeral with a spiritual element. They also addressed the financial aspects, exploring options to manage costs, and discussed both burial and cremation. Sue clarified that a decision on burial or cremation wasn't immediately necessary, allowing the woman to consult with her family.

Ultimately, the woman recorded her wishes at the funeral home and opted for a payment plan. This arrangement provides flexibility, allowing her to modify her plans at any time, such as deciding on cremation later. Sue also encouraged her to begin compiling the words of wisdom she wishes to share, which will be printed and distributed to attendees on the day of her funeral. While holograms are not yet widely available, Sue believes they may be by the time they are needed.

This experience underscores the benefit of entrusting specific aspects of end-of-life planning to dedicated professionals. For this Lakeland resident, leaving finances to her financial planner, wills and estate planning to her attorney, and funeral arrangements to the funeral home's advance planner proved to be the most effective strategy.