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The Absent Father Effect on the Daughters

I am back welcome 2026

updating to all of you

By your age, You should be able enough to realize this....

It's fulfilling to know you realize the time you become matured.

Happy Birthday My Bestfriend

One thing that amazes me is your unconditional form of giving. Anytime I need something, you never hesitate to offer and even more. If I happen to have a bad day, you listen to my problems and you reassure me that it will pass. And when I need your shoulder to cry on, you never hesitate to snap me back into reality and tell me to stay strong.

Twenty, Twenty three

Let's talked about the My 2023 expercience.

An Open Letter to My Anxiety

Stephanie Lee says in her letter, The love that surrounds her help to combat the anxiety that she faces.

A Letter to the Guy I'm in A Flirtationship with

A letter from Nicole DeCriscio, not exactly DATING but more than FRIENDS.

My Simple Steps to Happiness

I wanna share to all of you My Simple Steps to Happiness, I hope you guys learned from it.

Happy 2nd Anniversary Guys

Please forgive me guys 😞

An Open Letter To The Guy I Secretly Like

Credit to Boiling Waters and Leiasw You’re quiet and a man of few words, words that are full of wisdom affirming encouragement and love to others.

What is the best mindset to have before going into a relationship?

Chris Freyler shared tips before going into a relationship from Quora.

An Open Letter To Anyone Struggling With Anxiety

Written by: Matt Lily White “You don’t have to control your thoughts. You only have to stop them from controlling you.”

How to Help Someone with Anxiety

Let's identify the symptoms of anxiety and how we can help someone.

Open Letter to the Person Who Helped Me Through Hard Times by Jennifer Healey

Thank you, for the moments you made me forget for a while, and for the nights you pulled me through. For teaching me how to laugh again. For proving it's safe to cry.

Besa is BACK

Catching up for the Year 2023.

I miss you guys 🤗

Sorry for not Updating you guys 😔

A Goodbye letter to 2022 by Sudha Yadav

This year has taught me immensely about patience. I’ve learned the simple truth that taking walks with a coffee and a cool breeze in the air helps me more than anything to calm down. It doesn’t solve my problems, but it gives me peace in times of chaos and a little hope that I can try again tomorrow. My time spent in rest affords me the opportunity to reflect, and even if by tomorrow things are still not alright, I know I can do it again.

What is an open secret about life that everyone ignores?

I wanna share this from Desi Rossi from Quora where she shared about life that everyone ignores. I hope you guys like and reflect about your experience.

An Open Letter To My Friend Going Through A Breakup by Emma Winkelman

A break-up is meant to teach you that this love wasn’t meant to be and maybe that means you were saved from being with the wrong person in the end. Life is full of change, sometimes not in the way we planned. I know it’s hard to understand, and that’s okay. I’ll help you through it.

What is the hardest lesson you have learned this year?

To become a better you, you’re going to have to go through some hard experiences. You’ll make it through to the other side. It might feel like your heart is breaking, but in the end, you’ll be the best version of yourself. You deserve to better and have a happier life.

An Open Letter to Myself on My Birthday

I decided to write myself an open letter for My Birthday.

A Day in My Life

Today is my birthday and I decided to have A Day in The Life of Besa through Podcast Episode.

Pros and Cons Dealing with Strangers online with Girl on Fire

There are a lot of advantages to meeting and chatting with friends online. Compared to meeting in person, online meetings are preferred by most people these days.

Interview with Besa

My Bestfriend interviewed me on my birthday episode. Thank you Caramelodice to be my host and love you ❤️🤗😘

What is the best way to believe in yourself?

Believing in ourselves can help us achieve our goals manifest our dreams and increase our well-being. You can overcome self-doubt and have the confidence to take action.

An Open Letter To The Girl That Rejected Me by Anonymous

I’m willingly removing myself from your life as my last gift to you and I hope that you will find people in your life who truly love and appreciate you in a way that keeps your light shining much brighter than before you met me.

How do you stop living with regrets?

Regret is not absolution. You don’t get extra credit for flagellating yourself with sorrow. You have one life, and you help no one by hating the part that you already lived.

A Letter To The Friend I Fell In Love With Michael Jones

To the friend I fell in love with, I don't regret you. You were the best friend that I have ever had. You taught me more than any friend I have had. You were the first person I loved, and still now, it's hard for me to find someone because I'm always comparing them to you.

Why are so many decent people single nowadays?

Single no matter what age is a no bad thing. Self respect is a massive thing just like a healthy long term relationship is. I find the most damaged individuals are always pushing for relationships. They should happen organically and not be rushed.

A Letter to Posh

I have paw prints on my heart, and I thank you.

Why does the loss of a pet hurt so much?

It’s natural to feel devastated by feelings of grief and sadness when a beloved dog, cat, or other pet dies.

A Letter to Kice

This is an Open Letter to Kice from Ask Girl with Besa.

What one thing do you wish you had known about life?

These are my list If you have high emotional intelligence and you know it, trust your intuition about other people.

A Love Letter to your Authentic Self by Miriam Castilla

Your humanity, imperfections, flaws, & frailty. Embrace all of it. When we lose our authenticity, We disconnect both from who we really are and from others.

What makes a person genuinely likeable?

People are likeable in different ways, being likeable means they like you as a person or they listen to you and open up to you, just being plain, cute, funny and sweet always remember likeable comes in lots of ways.

An Open Letter To Strong Independent Women by Kathleen Crank

Let us accept love is a strong, independent women. Let us grow in humility, sisterhood, support each other and always reach out a helping hand and let us reach back with a smile on our face as we say.

How do you know someone's true personality?

The only thing you can do is take a chance and spend time with them. The more time you spend with a person, The more you interact, the better you get to know them. It's that simple. There are no shortcuts.

An Open Letter to the Person I Left by Kristen Pate

I could sacrifice myself for you but at the end of the day, I was going to give and you were going to take until you had left me with nothing but frustration.

What have you sacrificed for love?

Sacrifices and compromises are common in romantic relationships but they are not the norm in real love.

Open Letter To Every Woman Who Struggles With Negative Thoughts by Anonymous

We might fail multiple times, but we will find courage to get back up every single time to fight against negative thoughts.

How do I stop being a negative person?

Being negative won't get you anywhere and the more negative you are, the worse you end up feeling

A Love Letter to the Boyfriend that I haven’t actually met yet by Areej Francisco

Please never give up on me when we get old and we get impatient. Remember our love and joy instead of the many fights that we’ve had.

What is the best way to choose a life partner?

Getting to know one another and allowing for growth and understanding working as a team. Partners in love, life or career it all starts with the foundation being set.

An Open Letter to the Guy Who has My heart by Tehya Sesay

My heart skips a beat when I'm with you. I feel special appreciated, trusted, desired and so loved.

How do you know if someone is mature or not?

Maturity brings with responsibility. With responsibility comes sensibility. Sensibility leads to confidence. So move with confidence to show the world you have now matured.

An Open Letter to the Person Who Didn't Appreciate Me by Taylor Smith

You took me for granted, you used me and you never realized how much I was actually there for you when you needed me. I was becoming invisible to you

7 Things to Do When You Feel Unappreciated

Feeling unappreciated can lead to feelings of #resentment and #anger. Fortunately, these strategies can help you feel better and they might even prevent the relationship from being tarnished when you feel unappreciated.

My Goodbye Letter to you by Catherine Mendoza

Thank you for loving me despite my imperfections. Thank you for standing by my side when everything almost went upside down. Thank you for all the ice cold bucket of jokes and laughter.

Is Sexual Compatibility Important in a Relationship?

Tonight's guest is someone who I think is a good role model. He is a consistent Multi-Awarded Real Estate specialist, a Sales & Marketing professional, a Motivational speaker who is popular on Tiktok, and a loving cat dad of Alfred.

An Open Letter To The Father Who Left by Meghan

Life is far from perfect, and what makes it beautiful is our ability to overcome and accept things with grace. Despite all of the trust issues I will forever battle with, the nights spent crying into my pillow of not feeling good enough.